'Vanderpump Rules' Star Scheana Shay's Complete Dating History (2024)

While Scheana Shay has stated on several occasions that she would accept a job passing out roses on The Bachelorette, the Vanderpump Rules star does alright finding dates on her own!“I would be the Bachelorette. [But] I don’t want to go on The Bachelor to become the Bachelorette,” Scheana told Us Weekly in March 2019. She added that she would be the series’ lead “in a heartbeat.”Scheana has had multiple high-profile relationships without the ABC dating series, however. Back in 2009, the SUR waitress was wrapped up in Eddie Cibrian’s divorce from Brandi Glanville after news broke he was having affairs with both Scheana and country singer LeAnn Rimes."It was just a mess. I ended things there, I stopped talking to him, and I've never talked to him again," the “Good As Gold” singer recalled to Us in 2013.After dating soap star Robert Valleta (more on him later!), Scheana started dating Mike Shay. While the twosome wed in 2014, their marriage was over after two years amid the musician’s struggle with substance abuse.[sendtonews type="float" key="lNXn89cRmW-2840547-14453"]“I think season 4, it got really hard just dealing with Shay’s addiction and martial problems and season 5, pretending like everything was fine,” Scheana told Us in November 2018. “I felt like I wasn’t really being my true self. I was putting on this facade of ‘everything’s sunshine and rainbows and no, no, no, I’m really happy.’”The reality personality then reconnected with Valleta and documented their relationship on season 6 of Vanderpump Rules, but they ultimately split in August 2017.“With Rob, there was so many times that things didn’t really [seem] right, but I ignored it. I ignored signs, I ignored other opinions,” Scheana explained to Us in November 2018. “I was just like ‘No, no, no, this is perfect’ because I couldn’t admit that me jumping into a relationship a month after a divorce was a bad idea. I couldn’t admit that things weren’t perfect. I just wanted everyone to think, ‘Oh wow, this is her fairy-tale ending, she got divorced and met the love of her life. And everyone lived happily ever after.’ And that was not the case.”Scheana may have found her perfect match in 2019, however, when she began seeing Brock Davies. Us confirmed in July 2021 that the pair got engaged.Scroll down to revisit Scheana’s complete dating history:[podcast_block]

The SURver unknowingly started seeing the actor during his marriage to Brandi Glanville. "Seven years ago I met Eddie, and six or eight months go by and I find out that he's married and I call him out,” Scheana recalled to Us in 2013. “He lied at first about it and then he admitted it. So I stopped talking to him for a long time.” While Scheana and Eddie briefly reconnected after he split from Brandi, the Take Two star was also dating LeAnn Rimes, whom he ultimately married in 2011. Scheana emotionally apologized to Brandi on a 2013 episode of The Real Housewives of Beverly Hills, which launched Lisa Vanderpump’s spinoff Vanderpump Rules.

While working as a co*cktail waitress, Scheana was briefly linked to the musician in 2009.

RIP Scheana’s crop top wedding dress! The reality TV star’s high-school-friend-turned-boyfriend popped the question during season 2 of Vanderpump Rules, which aired in 2013. The twosome tied the knot in front of Bravo cameras in 2014, but called it quits two years later.

Following her divorce, Scheana reconnected with Rob, whom she briefly dated before things turned romantic with Shay. While the reality personality was convinced she found love again —and often told her costars during season 6 of Vanderpump Rules — the twosome split in August 2017 after one year of dating.

Scheana was linked to the Bachelorette alum in March 2018. While the pair documented one of their dates for season 7 of Vanderpump Rules, their spark fizzled by October 2018. The “What I Like” singer told Us in January 2019 that Robby ghosted her.

The Bravo star started seeing the SUR bartender in the summer of 2018, but the twosome have never been exclusive. “We’re in the exact same place as we were where you’re watching the show right now,” Scheana told Us in January 2019, referring to their friends with benefits-like relationship. “So, it hasn’t progressed, it hasn’t worsened. It’s just there.”

After her fling with Adam fizzled out, Scheana was linked to the TomTom general manager. While things didn’t work out, the aftermath of their romance will play out on season 8 of Vanderpump Rules after newbie Dayna Kathan expresses interest in Max.

Us exclusively revealed in November 2019 that Scheana started seeing the personal trainer. After making their couple debut at BravoCon later that month, the SURver confirmed to Us that her family “loves” the New Zealand native.

“He’s gorgeous,” Scheana told Us at the time. “He’s so good to look at, but he is the nicest person I’ve ever met and treats me with respect, the way I deserve, so that’s the best part about him.”

Scheana officially introduced Bravo fans to Davies on Watch What Happens Live With Andy Cohen in April 2020. Two months later, the reality star emotionally revealed that the pair were expecting their first child together, but she subsequently suffered a miscarriage.

The couple later welcomed daughter Summer in April 2021. Us confirmed in July 2021 that the pair are engaged after the TV personality was spotted wearing a giant diamond ring while out in Los Angeles.

Scheana and Brock secretly tied the knot in August 2021. One year later, they wed again in Mexico in front of Bravo cameras.

In April 2023, Scheana revealed she had a ​“little fling” with the Southern Charm star before she ultimately settled down with Brock.

“Shep and I kinda had a little fling. It was a blip in time,” he said on her “Scheananigans” podcast, explaining she met Shep while attending the NBC upfronts several years ago. She added that he was the “funniest, most charismatic person.” Scheana also clarified that they “never got that far” in their relationship and did not sleep together.

The “Good As Gold” singer admitted to Andy Cohen in April 2019 that she and the Summer House star hooked up and “rounded third base.”

Scheana also confessed in April 2023 that she had a past romance with the Shahs of Sunset star.

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